正如火如荼在籌備婚禮中,菁穗迫不及待想要祝福我倆,於是就傳了張自助婚紗照給她,猜猜是哪一張?文末答案揭曉!
首先感謝她為我製作的生日蛋糕,看官們若有興趣想吃,可以留言跟我說喔!詳情:祝我32歲生日快樂~
這祝福文標題為愛本質是生存狀態 (Love Basically Is a State of Being)
“The real thing is not a relationship but a state; one is not in love but one is love. Whenever I talk about love remember this: I am talking about the state of love. Yes, relationship is perfectly good, but the relationship is going to be false if you have not attained the state of love. Then the relationship is not only a pretension, it is a dangerous pretension, because it can go on befooling you; it can go on giving you the sense that you know what love is – and you don’t know. Love basically is a state of being; one is not in love, one is love.
“And that love arises not by falling in love with somebody. That love arises by going in – not by falling but by rising, soaring upwards, higher than you. It is a kind of surpassing. A man is love when his being is silent; it is the song of silence. A Buddha is love, a Jesus is love – not in love with a particular person, but simply love. Their very climate is love. It is not addressed to anybody in particular, it is spreading in all directions. Whosoever comes close to a buddha will feel it, will be showered by it, will be bathed in it. And it is unconditionally so.
“Love makes no conditions, no ifs, no buts. Love never says, ‘Fulfill these requirements, then I will love you.’ Love is like breathing: when it happens you are simply love. It does not matter who comes close to you, the sinner or the saint. Whosoever comes close to you starts feeling the vibe of love, is rejoiced. Love is unconditional giving – but only those are capable of giving who have.
“One of the most mysterious things about man is that he goes on giving things which he doesn’t have. You go on giving love and you don’t have it in the first place, and you go on asking for love from others who also don’t have it – beggars begging from beggars.
“Love first has to happen in the deepest core of your being. It is the quality of being alone, happily alone, joyously alone. It is the quality of being a no-mind, of being silent. Contentless consciousness is the space, the context, in which love arises in you.”
Osho, The Guest, Talk #5
這張是在台中大甲鐵砧山上拍的,掌鏡人是我弟,感謝他借我皮鞋:)~
菁穗熱心地將祝福文,配上這百年難得一見的婚紗照,大方地放在臉書動態牆上:D~
願我們每一天都在愛裡生活~
Comments on: "[婚禮] 愛本質是生存狀態 (Love Basically Is a State of Being)" (4)
讚啦~~~期待漂亮婚紗集!
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我也想看你的婚紗照耶(^o^)
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聖經·哥林多前書13章4~8節:「愛是恆久忍耐,又有恩慈;愛是不嫉妒;愛是不自誇,不張狂,不做害羞的事,不求自己的益處,不輕易發怒,不計算人的惡,不喜歡不義,只喜歡真理;凡事包容,凡事相信,凡事盼望,凡事忍耐。愛是永不止息。…」
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謝謝您的祝福~這章節真的從小聽到大,依然令人動容(^o^)
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